Spiritual Leaders and Betrayal Trauma

Abstract: Behind every experience of the misuse of power by a religious leader is a betrayal of trust. This workshop hosted by Dr. Duncan Hollomon explores the phenomenon of “betrayal trauma,” based primarily on the work of Prof. Jennifer Freyd of the University of Oregon.

Followers of a charismatic leader, or adherents to a particular spiritual perspective, often develop a sense of belonging that requires that they give up any questioning of the authority of the leader. Indeed, this very quality of surrender, or guru followership, is often praised as spiritual advancement, and can then be exploited by abusive leaders. Such was the case with the Shambhala Buddhist organization and the sexual abuse of a number of women adherents.

Contemporary trauma research has revealed coping mechanisms in those abused by someone trusted, and upon whom they are dependent. This workshop will look at those patterns, particularly those involving “not knowing,” with an eye toward understanding, and healing.

Presenter bio: An educator and clinical psychologist, Dr. Hollomon’s professional work is focused on the intersection of spiritual practice and psychotherapy. A former lawyer, consultant, and professional actor and singer, Duncan’s psychotherapy practice has included many clients suffering the effects of relational trauma. He is trained as a pastoral counselor, and hosts a weekly contemplative practices gathering through his church. His doctoral thesis looked at the practice of mindfulness as an aspect of the informed self-use of the psychotherapist. Before moving to the Boston area he taught at Antioch University in Seattle. Most recently he was a research associate with the Program on Religion and Conflict Resolution at the Boston University School of Theology.